Thursday, 23 November 2017

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!

Hello everyone,

 Our wishes are that  you all have a great  stress free happy day. No matter how you celebrate, with family or friends, with spanking or without,  we hope  you have a perfect day.


Oops again!

That's more like it!

Have a lovely time everyone.
much love

Jan and John.

Monday, 20 November 2017

Thank You!

Hello everyone,

Just want to say

To all my visitors, old and new, thank you very much for visiting my little corner of the land. I hope you all had a fun couple of days and made lots of new friends.

A special thank you to Hermione for bringing us altogether  yet again. 

Cheers to you all!
love Jan, xx

Friday, 17 November 2017

Hello to my Friends and Friends to be!

Hello everyone,

Today is   Love our Lurkers Day!

A big thanks to Hermione for organising this special event once again.

  I am very pleased to say I have made lots of friends over the years out here once I was brave enough to come out and play myself .

These two days are very special to all of us, as we would all like to  welcome all of you to our little corners of the land and hope you come out to play , even just for a little teeny  minute.

Is this you by any chance?

Oh I remember it well, that feeling of dare I press that button and say hello? Will anyone want me to? 

Well I am here to tell you that yes we  do want you to and yes you are brave enough. Come on , come on.

Need some more encouragement? Let me tell you about me and my little Blog. I have been a very happily married lady for thirty five years ( I imagine you can take a guess at my age without me spelling it out!)
Married life is super duper and has been enhanced greatly over the last five years since I plucked up courage and had the conversation with my beloved. Yes , you know the one. The, I really like spanking and would dearly like you to spank me, talk.

Once he had stopped looking like this

he gradually came on board with the idea. I mean he knew what sort of books I read so he can't have been that surprised can he, lol?

Gradually over the last few years we have found our own version of this thing we do. He is not into the more domestic discipline rules and regulations. For us it is a fun thing, a way to spice up our lives. We have without a doubt become so much closer, our lives are totally intertwined. Since starting our ttwd journey we have both retired and survived serious illness, bereavement,  and very importantly the arrival of grandchildren into our lives. 

I am not saying it is perfect. Is anything?  Sometimes I wish he was more ..., well dominant. Still I suppose I could actually be a great submissive ( yes I could be, all my mates, will you  please stop falling about with laughter. I am trying to tempt the newbies out).

If you read someone's blog and they say ttwd is easy,  that they have the hang of it, make  no mistakes.....

Don't believe a word of it! lol. It's jolly hard work. And that is the beauty of Blogland, everybody is willing to help, advice, support, ideas, listening. It is all out here once you just speak out. You know you want to.

Now seeing as you have stayed to join in our party today please feel free to ask me anything you want to.

I am going to kick off with a glass of bubbly so any minute now I will answer anything.

Let me ask my lurkers a question or two.

Are you in a spanking relationship? How's it going? 

Or are you wanting to be and are trying to pluck up the courage for that important chat ?

Sorry it is the fizz that's got me so nosy, lol.

Now let's get to the spanky bit. I figure these pics will let you know how I feel  about this lifestyle.

I guess you agree with that otherwise you wouldn't be here!

Hubby likes me in this position, I imagine he would like it even more if my posterior looked that that, sadly only in both our imaginations

Generally speaking this is how it is for us, he likes an excuse to spank, I like to give him an excuse.

Win Win!!

there are times when he, oh how can I put it, ummm.....

He reins me in a bit, not often mind as really I have a cute little halo but now and again it slips a wee bit, I can be a teensy bit snippy , even snarly, and a tad lot bossy and  :(


That picture about  sums it up. Makes my belly flip, the picture and the belt in his hands.

Oh and did I mention I am not a fan of wood, funny I know but for some reason wood doesn't appeal to me, especially a couple of my hubby's favourite possessions

Dreadful  thingys, I am sure you agree. Do you  have a favourite or  dreaded implement?

Of course generally I am a good girl and that is my absolute favourite thing for him to call me and I do try .......

Well maybe this sort of good girl

Are you still here? I am so hoping you are and ready to say hello and tell me a little bit about yourself.  Come and have a cup of tea or a glass of bubbly, you are always welcome here, anytime, any day.

Oh and don't forget to visit all my lovely friends, there is a list on my blogroll, just click on the name and hey presto there are more chums than you can shake a cane at. And some of them are really great authors too.  In my experience I can say that advice flows freely out here, just ask.....

Have a lovely day out here in the land 

love Jan, xxx

Saturday, 11 November 2017

The Party's coming! (And there's a great freebie out and about)

Hello everyone,

Hope you are all well and happy and enjoying life.

I am very pleased to see that it is that time again, yep, Party time!!! It is love our lurkers day

Friday 17th and Saturday 18th November.

These are a great couple of days out here in Blogland. Friends are made here, everyone is welcome to poke their heads out of their little burrows and join in the fun. Hope to see all my friends coming out to play and a few newbies brave enough to say hello. :)

In other news.....


One of my favourite authors has very kindly given us a freebie this week
Jane Henry's adult Fairy Tale is going begging this week.

Beauty's Daddy


A really cute, sexy read, not as dark as you think, it turned out to be full of hotness, lots of spanking, lots of daddying and scrumptious sex thrown in .  Wonderful writing. And then at the very end we got a free chapter of her new book out November the 14th
Mafia Daddy
This one is a Cinderella adult Fairy Tale and I will be buying this one straight away!

On the subject of books, another great author and chum PK Corey has her latest book of Cassie's adventures out later this week. This one is book 10 and called Cassie's Life. Oh to have a life as exciting as Cassie's I am happy that it is my Birthday this month as an Amazon voucher is on my list, lol

Happy Reading everyone

See you all on Friday!

love Jan, xx

Tuesday, 17 October 2017

It Must be Love!

Hello all,

This is a little bit of nothing so don't feel obliged to carry on, lol

I decided that I must really really love my beloved, as today I made a new recipe for  tonight's tea and I pretty much dislike everything that is in it but knew he would like it!

Not this but similar.

I made Beer baked sausages with Dijon mustard. Don't get too excited, it was nothing to write home about. Among the ingredients were onions, sausages,  real ale, mustard, tomatoes, beef stock cubes ( I don't mind the stock cube, the rest I wouldn't choose on any day, lol). There was entirely too much faffing about for my liking for something so meh!

It said to serve it with cheesy mashed potatoes and roasted carrots  so I did. I hate mashed potatoes too so ......

I came to the conclusion.......

Maybe I will have earned myself......

a nice one of course

To be honest, I am very happy to cook him whatever he fancies, I am his wife after all, it's not really an out of the way thing to do but hey ho,  any excuse for a good girl spanking I say.

Whether or not I get a good girl I know I won't be getting a bad girl as he is in a very good mood.  (There was ale left over )

A happy husband makes for a happy wife 

While I am out here telling tales of my culinary ability I will just add in a little conversation I had with my youngest at the weekend. Actually nothing to do with cooking, more ttwd related.

Son was staying overnight with us as his band had a gig nearby ( he is a phenomenal guitarist). He had his girlfriend's car and keys. 

"Oh mum look at these, her charm has snapped in half!"

"What a shame, what was it, can you get another one?"

"It was a pair of handcuffs, we got it when we were away"

 Such is our relationship.  I am not sure how many 28 year olds would be able to talk to their mum about such things as handcuffs and spanking. It happens quite often nowadays , I am pretty sure they lean the same way as us. She defers to him in pretty much everything and is definitely submissive, (I would stake my life on it). 
I think I was at a bit more of a loss than him. I just sort of suggested he buy a new set for her Birthday. I nearly said get her some real ones like mine but stopped myself just in time. Maybe I will work up to that conversation after the Prosecco has been flowing at Christmas ;)

Happy families!!

Hope you are all having a nice week with lots of love and happy spankings.
love Jan, xx

Monday, 2 October 2017


Hello everyone,

Just interrupting normal posts to express our sympathy to everyone across the pond who has been affected by the awful  shooting in Las Vegas.  What an unimaginable, tragic situation.

 Our thoughts are with you all.

much love
Jan and John, xx

Saturday, 30 September 2017

Another Bit of Thievery.

Hello everyone,

Here I come...
                                                                   (This is for Dev !)

This is cuter

Now I have burgled the meme from everyone, here we go.....


Marriages - one lovely one

Proposals - ditto

Divorces - no thanks

Surgeries - four :(

Tattoos - not one, I think the divorce rate might have been different if I had!

Piercings - only my ears, just one in each ear.


Shot a gun - no thank you, it is not really an English thing 

Quit a Job -  Yes a couple of times

Been on TV - Yes in my teaching days with my little dancers

Fallen in Love - Yes  :)

Driven cross country - No

Hit  a deer - No, that would be awful

Watched a Birth - No , doing it twice  myself was quite enough, lol

Ridden in an Ambulance - Yes

Sung Karaoke - Oh  no that would be awful for everyone else!

Ice Skated - No, I did love my roller skates as a little girl

Been Surfing - No, that is my brother's big passion and I watch him

Seen the Ocean - Yes, a couple of cruises in the Med and I live by the North sea.

Ridden a horse - just about

Almost died - No

Been punched - No

Punched back - No I wouldn't have, even if I had been punched first, not my way.


In love now - Yes with my husband and my boys and my grandbaby - totally.

Hope you are all okay
love Jan, xx