Tuesday, 18 July 2017

Pillow fighting :)

Hello there,

I think I must have forgot my age for a moment or too because as my husband joined me the other evening in bed I suddenly had an attack of naughtiness!

 I had been in bed for a while reading a spanky story,  one of April Hill's actually, they do make me laugh  and seem to incite  impishness.
So you see it wasn't my fault that as my husband turned back his side of the duvet I suddenly snatched up his pillows and threw them away after first walloping my astounded hubby with them.
I then got the giggles and couldn't stop laughing. I think it was the look on his face, lol.

 Just like this, lol!!

I really hope he doesn't read this as that  will probably get me another go round ! ( he looks nothing like that but I couldn't resist the pic)


Hubby good naturedly picked them up  and grinned as he swiped me back. Still giggling I threw them away again and giggled on.....

Suddenly the tone of voice changed,

"Pick them up."

"You could pick them up, you aren't in bed yet"


"Umm, I am comfy here thank you"

"NOW!! And don't push your luck"

I reluctantly got moving. Slowly.

"Actually while you are there you may as well put them on the bed and get in your favourite position. I am pretty sure you know whats coming"


Well sometimes I will admit to liking that position, you know, when a massage is on the cards  or other activities best not talked about  here for fear of putting you off your tea.

 "Chop chop, it is bedtime my sweet"

There after ensued a short  and very stingy  surprise spanking, didn't last long and I was still a giggly mess afterwards .

 Might just try that again one day. The surprise element (the look on his face) is most entertaining to see I can assure you.. And it seems to be a great sleeping aid.

All's well that ends well :)

Why don't you give it a go? And let me know how it goes.

Have fun,

love Jan, xx

Sunday, 16 July 2017

Missed You....

Hello everyone,

A few months ago I decided to take a break from Blogland after four and a half years. I think maybe life has taken it's toll on me, ill health, family issues, life in general I suppose.  I found myself only blogging about the horrid stuff, always moaning. Who wants to read that? No one, anymore than I want to write it.

I will admit to lurking sometimes, but I couldn't bring myself to comment on anyone's posts as I lost confidence when I commented on a new blogger's post that had worried me.
I felt it best to stay quiet for a little while.

However I do have lots of friends out here and lots have contacted me by email and I am very grateful to you all. So I dipping my toe back in the water so to speak, just to say hello.....

I hope all of you are well and happy and enjoying ttwd. That aspect of our lives seems to have settled into a relaxing fun sort of thing,  morning spankings mostly,  just because he/we want to. There has been no "proper" discipline of any kind, due in part to my angelic behaviour (or his ignoring the naughtiness, much more likely, sigh...).
I am not complaining, how could he  really spank someone who is already in pain? Why would I want him too? And if he did could I cope with it.... I am thinking probably not if I am truly honest.
I think my mind wants more than my body and he knows it
Sad but true. Still there are

 Plenty of the giggly ones

Some of  these ;)

 It might be different these days but this is still as true as ever

as is this.......

In our day to day life, we still have two oldies to care for. I have heard today that the nursing home in which they live has been put up for sale. I have no idea what will happen as yet. I am in almost daily as fil is so frail and mil is a joy to visit!

Grand baby has been to stay again and we have had some lovely times with her, she is almost two now and the light of our lives. She loves bows, sparkles, any book she can lay her hands on, and her favourite person in the world appears to be her  Poppa.

 Not to brag or anything but I think I know this one off by heart as it is her favourite!!

The English summer has been lovely, days of sunshine and flowers, walks on the beach and in the country. In a few weeks time we are having another bloggers meet up and I am so looking forward to meeting up with some English bloggers friends and Minelle. I am sure we will miss Ella and DF but what a treat to meet our famous artist friend from across the sea.

Hope you are all having a fun summer (or winter in Lindy and Roz's neck of the woods),
Missed you all. Thank you to all of you who have emailed me, I have much appreciated it.
love Jan, xx

Saturday, 15 April 2017

Happy Easter!

   Hello everyone,

Hope you all have a lovely Easter with friends and family

with love 
Jan and John

Saturday, 8 April 2017

Late Answers!

Hello everyone,

These are the last of my March questions. I am a bit late in the answer department ,
 but better late than never...

Katie asked these.

What does a great day look like for you? Do you have hobbies?  How is Grandbaby?  Do you ever get spanked for spoiling her and buying her too many clothes and toys?

A great day is just spent with hubby. We are enjoying retirement and love pottering round new towns and villages round us. A nice lunch out, a visit to a tourist attraction, I love a visit to  a stately home. Doesn't matter about the weather, just an easy day.
Also I love when I visit my oldies and they are well and happy ( as this is not on the cards at the moment, when this happens it is a really good day).

As to hobbies, I love love love reading. It has been my thing since I was a tiny girl and my kindle is my favourite possession.

I also enjoy sewing a little bit. I am not very good at it but I like a bit of patchwork and have made lots of bits for our home and especially grandbaby's room

Grandbaby is wonderful, she is gabbling on non stop, can count to ten, and knows some colours. She too is book mad.  I wonder where she got that from! She  traces the words with her finger saying da da da da as she goes! The best thing is she is coming for a holiday to Grandma and Grandpa's in June.

We love having her all to ourselves,  we are having a wooden play house in the garden ready for her trip, and her wardrobe has a new selection of summer dresses ready and waiting.......and so onto your next question.

No, he is as bad as me, who do you think is building the house? ( I am making curtains and cushions.)
Yes we really are bonkers grandparents!!

Okay now onto Cat's question.

What four people living or dead would you invite for drinks and dinner? 

For me the hardest question,  I  struggled with this one, toyed with having just my favourite authors but decided to branch out as I couldn't settle on just four!

Here goes, first of all I would have my friend Lindy. I fear that in real life our paths would never be able to cross so I would have her and Bear here for this.

Next on the list would be Bradley Walsh, a comedian, quiz host and all round nice chap

  Just my cup of tea

Funny, beautiful, sweet, gentle she would be a perfect guest. When I was young I wanted to be just like her.

Gorgeous, hunky, Dom like, he will definitely top it off!

Hope you are all having a great weekend

Love Jan, xxx

Tuesday, 4 April 2017

Literary Questions.

Hello everyone,

Today's questions are  mostly book related so I thought I would put them together.

Ronnie asked.

Have you ever thought of writing a spanking (or Vanilla) book yourself? 
What is your favourite implement and why?

 I would love to write a book. I just can't think of a plot I haven't read! I have read thousands of books in my life time, truly and I cannot think of an original idea to save my life. If I could get started I reckon I would like to give it a go but I really don't think I have the skills for it.

My favourite implement apart from his hand is a wide leather belt, no idea why, the thud , the sting , who knows? I am just kinky, lol

EL asks 
What are your three favourite books?

This is an impossible question. I love so many books. I know I am going to ramble on, it is books after all.....

My most favourite spanking author is  Maren Smith. I swear if I read her books in print not on my kindle I would have read the print off the page. Have you been to the Castle? 

  I love everything she writes. Her Corbin's Bend books almost made me pack a bag and move!!

 I also love love love Ashe Barker's trilogies. There are four sets of three and I couldn't put them down.

  Deliciously English, sexy Doms and sweet heroines.

Of course I don't only read spanking books, I love mysteries especially Dick Francis novels 

Horses, murder, super!!

Of course as a teenager I discovered the world of Jilly Cooper

  Who hasn't enjoyed a joyous romp through the sexy scenarios created by this wonderful lady?

To be honest there are so many wonderful authors in the world, I am grateful to all of them. From Enid Blyton in my childhood to my blogger author  friends  of today I am so glad to share your work.

I have a couple of questions to go , Cat and Katie still to go....

Hope you are all having a great week, big hugs to Lindy, hope you get better soon.

love Jan, xxx

Saturday, 1 April 2017

A Few More Answers....

Hello everyone,

Here are a few more answers to questions from PK, Meredith and Lindy.

PK first.

Do you have a spanking that really stands out in your mind above all others?

Yes I do. Fairly early on we had a disastrous one. We were not so experienced as we are now and I cannot remember what triggered it but we had obviously been disagreeing about something. There had been no spanking about whatever it was and it was late at night and we were in bed unable to sleep. I said something that hubby misunderstood. It was nothing to do with spanking or ttwd but he suddenly got out of bed and ordered me over the pillows. I was half asleep and not really sure what had caused such a reaction. 
He didn't back down though and I did eventually get into position. 
At this point I felt this was an unfair spanking and vowed to show no reaction at all. he spanked and I lay there like a stone until he finally realised he was getting nowhere. He stopped , I huffed back to bed in silence and eventually went to sleep.
The next day we discussed it all and realised it had all been a giant misunderstanding. Took a while to get our groove back. I did blog about it at the time and thankfully it has never  been quite that bad since.

Meredith's go....

Do you ever have spanking's that end in delicious laughter?

YES we do, most of the time that is what happens here, lots of giggling  from start to finish .
 Happy spankings  are the norm. I hope they are for everyone.

Last for today is my dear friend Lindy.

What is the best part of ttwd for you? If you knew about it at the start of your marriage would you have started it then?What else do you like to do with John now he is retired?

 The best part of twwd is the way it encourages us to  spend more time and energy on each other. It is automatic now to concentrate on each other. I feel softer somehow when I am in ttwd mode.
I don't think we would have started it in the early days. I don't think either of us would have had the confidence in ourselves. Also we live in a small house and spanking when the kids were about would not have been possible and when they were little we never left them with anyone else. Also hubby worked long hours, it would have been unrealistic to expect him to come home and deal with ttwd on top of it.
Since he has retired I suppose I should say we like traveling and seeing the world, but in reality I am not keen. I just like pottering about doing the day to day stuff that we have done alone for all our working lives  and can now do together. We do go out for plenty of days out and we spend a lot of time visiting the Grandbaby and her entourage.
We have been away with friends, and we have been away alone a few times. Also we have spent a lot of time on the house, ( and money !). It is lovely being able to just get up and do what we fancy, at the  moment I am planning a new kitchen :)

I am having this range, country style, ivory and wood. very exciting.

That's it for today, still have Cat, Ronnie and EL's questions to do.....
 Hope you all have a great weekend,
      Jan, xx

Wednesday, 29 March 2017

Answers for Roz and Abby.

Hello, thank you all for your questions. I am going to answer a few at a time as I don't want to bore you silly. First up   Roz asked these

What is the biggest change we have noticed in our relationship since we began ttwd?

The most obvious thing is our focus has changed. We put each other first in all things. It has been even more noticeable since we retired a year ago. We have the time for the little things.  I don't know if much has changed in our personalities. Although I am not a submissive I do like to please, and  I am definitely a nurturer. Yes I do fuss around him  but I always have, ttwd hasn't changed that and he has always been protective of me. I will say that our children have noticed, especially our youngest. he definitely knows about our kink and openly admits he wants what we have.

Do you ever wish spanking was sometimes for other reasons than fun, such as reset , discipline etc?  

Yes I do, I really do but it is not going to happen. I don't think he has it in him to be strict and I have learnt to accept what we have. Let's face it I married him as he was, I loved him then and I love him even more now. Also as he says I am not particularly naughty so he would struggle to come up with real reasons. I suppose he has reined me in a couple of times but it is generally all fun and games here.

 Favourite place to visit?

This was the hardest question.  If you are talking abroad, I loved the time we spent in Nice and Monaco, maybe Pompeii.
In this country while I do love visiting grandbaby my favourite place to be is at home, always.

Abby then piped up with these.

How did we meet?

 My husband's best friend worked with my dad and we used to meet at  lunchtimes when he was visiting his mate and I called in to see my dad. He asked me out one day and hey presto!

During the spanking challenge which implement do I wish he wouldn't use and which do I wish he would use more?

No thanks!!!

Yes please!!!

You win a meal cooked  by a five star chef. What is on the menu?
 No idea really, my favourite food is toast, lol. However I do like these
a cheesy starter

followed by pasta.

something with meringue for dessert

   That's it for today, more tomorrow.

Hope you are all enjoying the Mad March questions . 
love Jan,